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Why do you need a will?

In simple terms, a will helps to ensure that your family's needs are met according to your wishes, when you die. If you die without a will, therefore without an executor, the court will appoint an administrator. It can take months for this process to be completed and there is no guarantee that your dependents will receive what you may have intended.

Dead Men Do Write Checks

(so smart ones leave a will)

 

by James Carney                                     Thursday, May 13, 2010

Press of Atlantic City

 

Dead men do write checks. Often they are for thousands - even tens of thousands - of dollars. They are cashed, and no one is ever the wiser.

Charles Dickens once wrote, "What lawsuits grow out of the graves of right men every day: sowing perjury, hatred, and lies among near kindred, where there should be nothing but love!"



Generally, probate files are located at the Surrogate's Court and are a matter of public record. They're available for all to see. They tell the stories of our neighbors, our relatives and our friends. To some extent, they reveal our dirty laundry, our family squabbles, and, as Charles Dickens wrote, "our perjury, hatred, and lies."



In reality, these files are the life stories of real people we know, people we are about or some we just read about. They are simple folk, celebrities, the known and the unknown. Often their deaths bring forth hidden secrets, amazing stories and true-life adventures. When we die, we may leave behind meager estates or millions of dollars in assets and other valuables that we've accumulated over a lifetime. In New Jersey, the statutes and laws govern how and to whom our estates are to be administered. Absent a valid last will and testament, the decedent's assets are distributed by the laws of intestacy.



Recently, Yung-Ching Wang, of Short Hills, passed away. Listed by Forbes Magazine as one of the 400 wealthiest people in the world, he left an estate valued at approximately $8.5 billion dollars. Yes, that's "billion" with a "b." He left no will, and his estate is currently being battled out in the New Jersey courts.

It's been said that if you don't have a will, then you are chargable with the knowledge that you're leaving a mess behind.



"David" died in Atlantic County, leaving a checking account with a $41,000 balance, real estate and others assets he had gathered over a lifetime. He left no will, and his heirs never completed the administration process of his estate at the Surrogate's Court. Over time, his account became overdrawn. One might wonder how a dead man could write checks from his grave in significant amounts enough to evaporate a relatively large sum. He also left a 24th-floor oceanfront condominium with hundreds of thousands of dollars of equity, and other assets and valuables he had gathered over a lifetime.



The condominium is now in foreclosure, personal items and family treasures have disappeared, as often happens upon the death of a successful individual when no one is looking.



As they say, "You can't take it with you." So assets pass to someone else: those we designate in our wills or those whom the state identifies in intestate succession. And then there are those assets that quietly disappear into the night.



In the days after one's passing, a parade of relatives and others start pouring over the bounty of the decedents personal effects to stake their claim to the goods left behind, much like the $41,000 in David's checking account. How and to whom did it pass?



Eight people will die today in Atlantic County, 56 people this week, 240 people this month and almost 3,000 people this year. Their stories, rich and poor, will be told to a larger or lesser degree in their wills and in the administration of their estates. They are stories of happiness and tears, and, each in their own way, they are a reflection of that person's life.



The Surrogate's Court has been able to identify just how and to whom "David" (after his death) wrote his $41,000 worth of checks. We have established evidence of those transactions and have the matter under review for disposition.

And no, "David" did not write those checks himself. Just as forensics and modern medical techniques can help identify cold-case victims and perpetrators in crimes, the surrogate utilizes similar advanced methods and techniques to identify financial and probate irregularities and fraud.

When it is so relatively simple, inexpensive and expiditious to follow the statutes and rules, one has to question why some people choose to avoid the legal process. They subject themselves to possible criminal and civil penalties, when all they had to do was just follow the law in the first place. The surrogate and his staff are very willing to assist those in need of these services.

A huge number of similar stories exist, many beyond belief, the final outcomes yet to be told.

Why every parent needs a will

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What is a will, and what can it do for me?

A will is a document that specifies who will inherit your bank accounts, real estate, jewelry, cars, and other property after you die. You can leave everything to one person or divvy it up in small, specific portions, such as your CD collection to your brother or your sweaters to your best friend. But a will is much more than a means of distributing your property when you're gone — especially if you have kids.



For parents, making a will is the single most important thing you can do to make sure your child is cared for by the people you would choose if anything should happen to you. In your will you can designate a person (guardian) to care for your children if you die before they become legal adults. And you can designate a property guardian or trustee to manage your money for your children until they reach adulthood. You can appoint one person to act as both personal and property guardian, or choose two people to carry out the separate roles.



If you'd like to help streamline the wrap-up of your affairs after you're gone, you can name an "executor."An executor pays your debts and taxes and then makes sure the rest of your estate goes to the people you've chosen.



There are many other things you can use a will for, including these: To make charitable contributions; to donate organs; to specify funeral arrangements; and to state your preferences about life support by creating a living will, healthcare directive, or directive to physicians as a separate document.



One caution: Certain assets such as life insurance policies, 401(k)s, and IRA accounts have beneficiary forms that trump wills. That means the funds in these accounts are distributed to whomever you named as beneficiaries, no matter what you specify in your will. Be sure to check the beneficiaries on these accounts — and make any changes — to align with your will.



What  happens if I die without a will?

Without a will, there's no guarantee that when you die your money will go to the people you want or that your children will be cared for by the person you believe will do the best job.



This may come as a shock, but if you die without a valid will, state laws require that your property be divided according to a fairly inflexible formula. In most states your spouse, if you have one, would receive only about one-third to one-half of your estate. The rest would be earmarked for your children.



Sounds fine, but without a will, in some states a state-appointed administrator (who charges fees for the service) would control your children's money until each child turned 18. That means your spouse wouldn't be able to access the money to help raise your children without going through a very complicated legal procedure. And even if the courts decided that your spouse could hold the funds earmarked for your children in trust, he or she would have to supply the court with an accounting of how the money is used each year.



Moreover, if you and your partner both died without a will, the state courts and social services department would appoint someone to raise your children. And that person might have very different ideas about parenting than you do. Even if you think you have almost no property to leave your children, it's worth making a will to make sure you get to choose their guardian



Do I need a lawyer to make a will?

No, but you'll need to invest time, energy, and probably a little money to do it right yourself. Many families have written legally valid wills by using a self-help book or a will-writing software program, although mistakes are more likely with a do-it-yourself will.



Here's a good rule of thumb: If the cost of using a lawyer is holding you back from writing a will, buy a self-help book and do it yourself. Nolo, a respected legal publishing house, has self-help books and software for sale online. Check Nolo's wills and estates area for the latest offerings. Or ask your public librarian to guide you to up-to-date books on the subject.



On the other hand, if the thought of plowing through pages of legalese is too daunting, call a family lawyer. Ask for recommendations from family or friends. A lawyer can cost you anywhere from a few hundred to a few thousand dollars, but the money buys you expertise and peace of mind.



 

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